So you're a guy, you're in a club, you're with your friends and having a good time and you've got your eye on a shy girl. Us
shy girls have a really hard time showing that we have an
interest in a guy in a club. In fact we have a hard time showing that we have an interest in a guy we like period. So to help you I have compiled a list of
5 things that shy girls do that show they're interested in you.
Number one, avoiding eye contact. The Confident Girl is going to look over at you all the time. The Shy Girl is never going to look at you. We can't stare deeply into your eyes. It goes against everything we know, our very nature of self-preservation. The most eye contact you're going to get is when we so naturally pretend that we're looking for somebody else and it just so happens to be in your general direction just to see if you're looking at us.
Number two. Do you know who we're going to get on so well with tonight? You're best friend. We're going to get on like a house on fire. We don't fancy him or any of your friends which takes the awkwardness right out of the situation (for the most part). In part we're trying to impress you by getting on well with your friends, we're hoping they're going to put in a good word for us, but mostly it's because we want to stay within your vicinity without actually have to talk to you.
And the reason we don't want to talk to you is because, three, we'll have nothing to say. On the average day, us shy girls are pretty intelligent. Interesting, you may even say. But not when we're talking to you. It makes no sense but seriously, if you ask us for an opinion. Which is the reason why, if we do manage to keep eye contact for more than a few split seconds and we manage to get an actual conversation going.
Number four, we're gonna laugh at everything you say. So here's where you get a real ego boost. Some of it's because we're in a club and we can barely hear you. Mainly it's because we do genuinely want to show that we have an interest in you. We don't wanna die alone. But it's really hard to try and come up with something to say when we're trying to quell our overwhelming urge to ravage you and at the same time we don't really know you and stranger danger. So if it's all gone swimmingly well for you up until this point... somehow... and you still want to ask us out, there's one last sign to look out for.
Five, The Group Date. If you ask us out and we say yes, unconditionally, and we give you our number.. we're probably not gonna call you. The quick yes is to get you out of our hair. We're hoping that you're gonna go and find some other girl and completely forget all about us. That way we don't have to feel bad about not responding to your text messages, because there is no way that we want to text you back openly turning you down and stir up any kind of confrontation.
No. If we say yes but turn it into a group date this is actually a good sign. The fact that we want you to hang out with us and our friends is not just a thing about approval. It's also so that if everything goes to pot and we have nothing to talk to you about we can push you off onto our friends and we don't have to deal with any of that awkwardness. The group date means that you've pretty much got it in the bag. Confusing? Yes we are. Worth it? Yes we are!
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