Do you know how to ask a girl out? Even further , do you know how to ask a girl out and avoid rejection ? What if I told you there's just a few key step that you can take where you can avoid rejection every time?
I am here teaching you how to get the girl while still being your genuine self and today, we're talking about how to ask a girl out. Is it hard for you to ask a girl out ? Do you get rejected most of the time ? Are you not sure exactly how to do it?
Well today, I'm going to give you a simple solution. I used to get rejected all the time. Going out during the day or maybe at a bar, meeting girls and they would say no , or ' I have a boyfriend,' all of those things that you don't want to hear.
Have you heard those things before or maybe something else? Well if so, leave a comment down below and share your story. You need to learn how to ask a girl out the right way so we can put an end to this rejection nonsense.
Let me give you the 3 steps that will get you asking her out, getting her number and most importantly, getting her out on a date.
Step 1.
what you say has to be interesting. Right? Of course! If you're not interesting, then she's not going to be attracted to you and you'll never get her number.
She needs to be thinking, “Wow this has been a great experience and I want to see this guy again.'”
Give her this awesome experience when you first meet. This is all going to come from conversation.You will not attract her unless you know how to talk to her. More on this in just a minute. Stick around until the end.
Step 2.
Seed a date idea. You never thought of this one, did you? When you ask a girl out, you have to give her a reason, not just, 'Hey, what's your number?' but give her a reason to see you again.
Here's the trick: when you're talking to her, try to find out the commonalities between you two. Search for that in conversation.
So what is it that you're both interested in? Is it art, food, music, sports? Find them and that's going to help you seed the next date idea. When you find out that shared interest, get excited about it and mention that you two should do that one thing together. See now you're already hinting at the fact that you guys should hang out again.
Step 3.
When exactly are you supposed to say and how are you supposed to say it? Here's a great line to use when asking a girl out: 'You seem cool. We should hang out sometime and do whatever. Let me get your number.'
Any decent variation of this will work but let me explain why this works so well. The line is confident. It's basically saying, 'Hey, I don't know you well enough but I think I like you but either way, let's hang out again.'
And you're not asking for it. You're almost directing her to give you her number. See, that's taking charge and that's sexy. This line has worked hundreds of times for me and my students, so use it the next time you talk to a girl and it's super important that you do because then you can really solidify a great date with a girl and not get flakedon.