Have you ever asked yourself – “Why am I not attracting and keeping my date interested?
It’s all about psychology. This isn’t to say dating is all about mind games but it is about emotion and the sooner you can identify patterns, the sooner any relationship can blossom and accelerate at full speed.
For the Men, did you know confidence can carry your relationship through ANY hurdle? (Ladies, we’ll get to you in just a minute) Using Joshs’ #1 technique, he teaches men how to instill confidence to allow any man to go after any woman he desires. Honestly, it wasn’t until I read the
“7 Scientific Tricks of a Woman’s Mind” that I began to understand how they operate and what they are a looking for in a man. Sounds sleazy that I bought and read a book but knowledge is power and it has changed my life 100% for the better.
See, growing up no one ever teaches you swag — but this book lays it all out. It was because of Tao that suddenly on my first date, Allyson (now my wife) was intrigued by everything I we talked about over dinner (which led to a second date, a relationship and eventually a beautiful marriage). Listen, I swear I had no game prior whatsoever. I would have never gotten the opportunity to get to know her better if I hadn’t honed her interest and put the ball in my court. So if you’re thinking:
– Not sure where to take your date?
– Do you hands get sweaty and do you stutter?
– Don’t know how to break the ice? And get her talking?
– Want to know the best conversation starters to open her up?
– Interested in reading her body language and comfort toward you?
– Do you want to be desired by any woman you meet?
Once you understand the fundamentals of all of the above – dating will become a walk in the park.
Top 4 Things Men Do Wrong On The First Date -
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Talk about themselves. Let’s face it. We’re awesome but don’t be too quick to let her know. We all know women want to be heard and this applies to dating too. Don’t hog up the conversation too much. I know its hard, but listen (and listen carefully – she is giving you clues) and you will be handsomely rewarded.
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Leave her hanging. Ask questions! Women are looking for interest and by asking questions about her life and upbringing (keep in mind some of it could be painful) – this allows her to break free of her shell and will help you get to know her easier.
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Be Stern. Don’t be too serious. Smile! Everyone loves a warm smile. Not only does this welcome trust, but it helps her vibe for you will multiply with simple one flash of pearly whites.
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Be cheap. Yes, we know dating can become expensive but if you want to impress her, then don’t go dutch. As much as some women insists on paying for dinner, its a lie. She secretly wants you to pay the bill. No woman wants a cheap man and believe it or not, it can be a deal breaker. You aren’t Mr. Moneybags but you still have to impress her at first go. She can pay on the second date!
Contrary to popular believe, women aren’t complicated. Once you understand what they are looking for and master how to approach them, you will become a better communicator. Use our
dating tips for men and you can and WILL thank us later. Instead of wondering if your dates are “in to you”, you’ll have your pick at which woman you like the most.
Stumped on First Date Conversation Topics
A lot of men get nervous about
what to say on a first date and more importantly how to sustain the conversation. If you’re not matched with someone compatible there can end up with a lot of silence and awkward moments. Before you start looking for a great place to take your date, read the below conversation starters:
To avoid those awkward moments, try to bring up some interesting yet fresh
first date conversation topics with:
1. What is your all time favorite way to spend your weekend?
2. If money was not an option, what would you do with your time and why?
3. Who is your biggest hero?
4. What was your family like growing up?
5. Lastly, who is your best friend and how did you meet?
Once she starts sharing she’ll loosen up for sure. Make sure you listen to first date advice and follow through. You only get one chance to impress her!
Online Dating Tips For Men
Dates are essentially mini interviews even though we don’t like to think of it that way. First impressions aren’t everything but they count for quite a bit.
Here are our first 4 crucial tips:
1. Be witty on your profile. Witty wins but arrogance doesn’t. Make sure nothing in your profile can come across as offensive or jerky. If a women senses you are using crude humor and self deprecation, she’ll move on and you might miss out on a great catch due to your immaturity.
2. Post a current and high quality profile picture. There is nothing worse than finding out your date doesn’t really weigh 160 like his profile states – but in reality actually weighs 230 pounds. He/she must have had a big big dinner last night or just plain out deceived you.
3. Ask her questions and stay interested. Women love a man who listens and wants to learn more about her and her beautiful soul. Don’t seem uninvolved in the conversation and don’t change the topic to suddenly. Same goes for women, ladies don’t be such a space cadet.
4. Display chivalry. Open doors, serve her first, bring a token as a gift to dinner. Your gift doesn’t have to be a dashing bouquet of red roses – a cupcake from a good bakery or something small that signifies you’ve been paying attention to what she likes. So gentleman, read her profile, pay attention to her hobbies and take notes!